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Doing the Hard Thing

Sometimes it is better to lose and do the right thing than to win and do the wrong thing. ~Tony Blair

When my older son was about twelve years old, he took a stand.

While visiting his grandparents one summer, he attended Bible class at their church. The Sunday school teacher was going to show a clip from The Matrix. I know the woman and I feel confident that she had a good lesson and reason to show it. But . . . we had a rule in our house that our children couldn’t watch rated PG-13 movies until they were 15. And The Matrix is rated R.

“I have to leave.” Jonathan stood to go.

“Why? What’s wrong?” The teacher was confused.

The conversation that followed was my son explaining the rule and that he had to obey it. The teacher said she was sure it would be fine for this little clip, but he didn’t give in.

He left the class.

Joseph was wealthy. A new up-and-coming politician in the inner circle. He had real estate, a position, and clout.

And an unpopular opinion.

He believed in doing what was right, even when no one else did.

50 Now there was a man named Joseph, a member of the Council, a good and upright man, 51 who had not consented to their decision and action. He came from the Judean town of Arimathea, and he himself was waiting for the kingdom of God. Luke 23:50-51 NIV

It’s hard to take a stand for what’s right when others around you are doing whatever they want.

But it’s even harder to stand up when those who are supposed to stand with you, don’t.

An accountant who won’t agree to fudge a little with the rest of the office might find herself out of work.

A postal worker who won’t put letters aside so everyone can go home on time, could bear the brunt of some bullying.

A teacher who refuses to talk about students might be eating alone the rest of the year.

But doing what is right is always the right thing to do.


God “will repay each person according to what they have done.” To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life. But for those who are self-seeking and who reject the truth and follow evil, there will be wrath and anger. Romans 2:6-8 NIV